Join us to celebrate nearly a decade of our relationship, and our commitment to many years more.

Read more →


Celebrate with us!
RSVP


DETAILS
  1. Location: CPW
    25 Dederick St. Kingston, NY 
  2. Date: Saturday, Oct. 24, 2026
  3. Attire: Semi-formal to cocktail
    (What does that mean?)

SCHEDULE
  4 PM: Cocktail hour
  5 PM: Commitment ceremony
  6 PM: Dinner
  7:30 PM: Dessert
  8 PM: Party 
  10 PM: After-party at Tubby’s    

MORE
  1. Travel 
  2. Menu
  3. Things to do
  4. FAQs
  5. Photo gallery
  6. RSVP


About us —

Phillip & Frances met in NYC in 2017.

We were both just getting out of long-term relationships and connected on a dating app (yes, that one). One night led to another, and even though we were trying to take it slow we started dating seriously soon after. A year later, we moved to the Hudson Valley. Since then we got a dog, changed jobs, and eventually bought a house, making a life together upstate.



“Love takes off the masks that we fear we cannot live without and know we cannot live within. I use the word ‘love’ here not merely in the personal sense but as a state of being, or a state of grace—not in the infantile American sense of being made happy but in the tough and universal sense of quest and daring and growth.”
―James Baldwin, The Fire Next Time